Sunday, September 21, 2014

19 Ways You Can Be The Best Friend Ever

A best friend?

She can be many things. She can be your sister, your mother, your teacher, your body guard, your talent manager, or your assistant fashion stylist all at the same time. You do not have to be childhood friends or neighbors. You can be best friends Even if you just met in class or just bumping into each other at a random place.

And so, I dedicate this post (my very first one) to my best friend, Moriela Morandarte 

(Who is just across the table from me right now, but does not know that I'm writing this for her) .. In just a few weeks, we went from total strangers to best friends. I'm so thankful for all those months that I've been your friend, and am certainly looking forward for more months or years together ..


I compiled the amazing and sweet things Momo and I do as best friends. Here are 19 Ways You Can Be The Best Friend Ever .. 1

1 Always bring your charger Because you know her phone has a short battery life. (Good thing we use the same kind of charger.) Even if you want to use it, if your best friend needs it more, you'll let her use it first.

2 Do not just listen to her stories about her good and bad days, be there.  Make those memories with her ​​and share the same crazy story together.

This is (from left) Momo, me, and Carmela making "zombie" faces beside the sunflowers.

3 Tell her the things she needs to know that no one else cares enough to tell her. Even if she gets hurt. The truth hurts sometimes. Just make sure to be gentle about it.

Photo credits to Google Images

4 Be the first person she'll go to when she has problems Because she knows she'll be able to trust herself being with you Even with all the drama. You do not have to agree with her ​​side or take anyone's side, you just have to be honest and say what you think about the situation. Sometimes, someone else's point of view is all she needs.

5 Always bring your umbrella Because you know she has not replaced her broken one yet. Any umbrella will do. Sharing umbrellas give more closeness and you'll be able to talk to each other better.

6 Sit under the trees until sunset just talking about some random stuff. It could be about Doctor Who, Sherlock Holmes, Harry Potter, Tom Hiddleston, The Big Bang Theory, or any of your crazy fandoms. You could also talk about your math finals Just a while ago, but that'll ruin the moment.

Photo credits to Google Images

7 Always be there for each other. You do not have to together all the time. You do not have to be clingy. Sometimes, distance makes the relationship stronger and you Spend the time together more special.

8 When you're that close, you do not have to be invited to her house to go there. Sometimes, surprise visits are better than planned ones. She'll appreciate that you'll want to Spend time with her ​​Even if there's really no other reason but to just plain Spend time with her.

This was when Momo fell asleep on our sofa after a tiring day of kite flying.

9 Having misunderstandings is normal. You just have to listen to what each other has to say to really understand what she wants to say. It has be hard to talk while the anger is still fresh in your mind. Let yourself calm down for a few hours. Then, approach her ​​again and discuss the problem in a more positive attitude. Do it in private so that other people will not be able to disturb the Both of you. Never leave unsettled any problem.

10 Do not get too jealous if your best friend Suddenly spends more time with another person. enjoying She Might be that other person's company but that does not mean that she does not like yours anymore. Instead of giving dirty stares and that other person, get to know her more. And no, I do not mean stalk her. I mean actually talking to her. Do not be afraid to approach Them when they're together. It has be awkward at first, but just give it some time and you 'll probably like this person too and laugh and yourself for Even getting jealous. What do you expect, you're best friends so you probably have the same taste when it comes to friends. Who knows, you MIGHT just make an awesome trio!

Right now, we're 6 in our intimate, Theonine, and no one gets jealous over anyone.

11 Accept her for who she is. She's a rebel? That's okay. A part of you is, anyway. She's not in the same religion as you? That never stopped me. You do not pick your friends based on their religion. There are only two kinds of people in the world - good and bad. If you're best friend is good, then you're in good company. She's very shy? She's too hyper? She acts differently from you? Well, if you were able to be this close to her without walking out, That Means, all of these really does not matter. It's Either you're demons play well with hers or you have not been a true friend to her and probably owes her an apology.

12 If you are really that close, it's okay to share things like cups or utensils. You forget you're LC ( Saliva Conscious) when you share these with her.

13 You do not mind being crazy and unique with your friend in public. Who cares if people see you with crazy marks on your faces? It is actually kind of fun if only the two of you knows why.

Momo and I put tally marks on our face During the Impossible Astronaut Day.

14 You tell each other's crushes. You get twitches  over each other's stories and get sad over each other's heartbreaks. Sometimes, Even she goes the extra mile for you and your crush if she really ships the Both of you.

Here's a picture of my crush sleeping. Shhh ..;)

15 You shouldnt NEVER forget her birthday. Forget when you two first met. Forget when she had a sprain on her left hand. BUT never forget her birthday. NEVER. Gifts are just things, but having someone truly remember your birthday without Facebook reminding Them about it, is very special. Please do take time to give her a memorable birthday message that is really worth another wonderful year of being together.

During this was my mini birthday celebration at my house with Momo and Gelai.

16 You are trustworthy. She can be trust you to watch her ​​things, to do favors Even if it's just the last minute, to never go back on your promise, to mean what you say, and to always be there for her.

17 No one bullies your best friend but you. No one can make your best friend feel hurt. Anyone one who tries, well, let Them try ..

18 You let your friend play with your smartphone. Even if it means charging your phone again later.

19 Just be yourself. Your normal self is what made ​​the two of you the best of friends. Keep that spark that keeps the two of you going. enjoy each other's company as you share your life together.

Well, this was supposed to be for a promo to get free tickets for a movie but I was not able to finish it on time so I just finished it off, but it did come from the bottom of my heart. :1

1 comment:

  1. I'm so sorry for some wrong grammars. I accidentally turned on the auto-correct so it kinda proof readed my whole post before I was able to publish it. I hope you still understand the message of the whole post, though. :1

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